Becoming Me Wendy's Blog

I have spoke of my dad not being in my life very much. But he did show up during an extremely difficult time to help me. I am truly...

On July 29, 1997 James Ricky Holderfield took his last breathe in the body known as Rick or as some lovingly called him “Yank.” Rick...

It’s really difficult to try and recall the time after the hospital stay and his diagnosis. Rick was never the same. He barely spoke...

Now it began all the testing to see what kind of cancer Rick had, had it spread other places, and was this spot on his lung cancer? This...

Little did I know I was at the ending of one major part of my life. I call it now the first third of my life. I got back into the...

I am going to ask you to come with me for just a bit. Use your imagination. Try your best to let down your judgements. Is it possible...

It has been over six weeks since I have written any blogs. I actually barely slept any in the month of June. I got maybe 2 hours a...

I know many of us are so driven that we believe we must always be working or doing something spiritual. Did you know resting or just...

Well I was led to go back to my personal life stories today. After spending two years as an Assistant Manager in Customer Service with...

The last two days I have been working on detoxing from Facebook and messenger. Mother Sophia directed me to completely disconnect myself...

Whew what a week this has been so far! Truly, what a month it has been. It is April 2022. We have been living in some very interesting...

I have mentioned in my previous blog that I am studying the Sophia Code book again. This is my second time reading and studying it. ...

I was just scrolling back through my memories to see what I am led to share next in my life. I came to the memory of journaling. One of...

As I try to collect my memories from the time in Savannah, actually my job was in Savannah but we chose to live in Richmond Hill for the...

When I ended my last blog I said I had no clue who I was and it was a true statement. I had never experienced the feeling of such loss...

Hurry, hurry, hurry. That was my inner voice back then in 1988, 89. It was like I need to get the promotion at work, I need to get...

I wrote 2 more blogs in the fall of 2019 and didn’t write again until the following January 2020 after my experience in Augusta. During...

I spoke about attempting to help others in my previous blog as a way to give back and prevent others from having difficult times like I...

Each time I have read back over my last blog post, I have identified more things that are yet to be unpacked for me. The first one that...

Today as I look at the calendar for some reason it hits me that it’s been seven years as of the end of January 2022, I have been divorced....